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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You haven’t learned how to handle disagreements.

Get a new therapist and learn. Are you just like”I’m too smart for this” and continuing to repeat bad behavior?[/quote]

YOU have to do the work, the therapist cannot do it for you. It’s truly that simple. [/quote]

[b]Some people are not wired for couples therapy.[/b] I was one of those people. [b]When I was ready for change, I changed [/b]— a lot. [b]I didn’t like it driven by my spouse[/b].   I did individual for a bit and that felt like I was in the drivers seat. I could think about what the person said, and not my spouse

[b]Sometimes the relationship is NOT the most important thing[/b]! That was the best thing I learned. [/quote]

Fascinating mash-up of thoughts out of context.

Hope you started with a neuropysch test, then did targeted individual therapy given any diagnoses. Because, yes, couples therapy does not work for or with certain individuals, and actually can make things worse for the couple. [/quote]

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