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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this is a communication issue. [b]She's worked for your family for years and you presume she knows the family's needs, i.e., summer time coverage. From her end she thinks she's giving you plenty of notice with 2 months to go.[/b] This is obviously eating at you. And I would be similarly annoyed since she's not asking for the time off; she's counting on it. I'd have a conversation about it, and point out the disconnect. If you think you want to keep her in the future, make it explicit about no vacation time during the kids' breaks, or that they need prior approval before she books anything. [/quote] Even if she knows this is a rough time for them, she's still entitled to use her vacation. Especially if it's a one time thing - am I gonna leave work every year during busy season? No. But for the big college girlfriends group trip that happens once every 5ish years? Yes, I'm going to leave work during busy season since that's an easier time for 95% of the rest of the group to get together.[/quote]
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