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Reply to "Every marry someone and realize they are completely different than who you thought they were?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, because we were together for 6 years before we got married and lived together for 4 of those years. There were no weird surprises. This is why those people who say you shouldn't move in together before marriage/engagement are so wrong. You have to enter the mundane period of time together to know if you can stand your partner for the long haul. [/quote] But what is the explanation for men who change much later on?! After 10-20 years of marriage? I was with my DH for 5yrs before marriage, lived together for 3. Didn’t have kids until 4yrs into the marriage. Never any red flags or problems. Mine changed much later (after 15yrs of marriage)- he is almost an entirely different person. I could’ve easily posted what you posted- and a bit smugly at that- earlier in our marriage. It didn’t last. [/quote] Well, it has been 20+ years for us, and he is still not terrible, so I don't know what to tell you. [/quote]
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