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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your first thing is ridiculous.  I don't get why this bothers you at all.   Your second thing is legitimate.  You told him this was important to you and I'm assuming followed up about it and he wouldn't give you any available dates.   [/quote]

Agreed. Some people are really bad about planning and even responding about dates if it's an open ended question. Can you ask about one specific week that's good for you and give him a response deadline, or ask when he's not busy and get an answer right away? My in laws are like this, they plan pretty last minute compared to me, so I just get specific early. [/quote]

Weaponized incompetency. He's an adult and to start catering to his selfishness and/or laziness by creating narrower windows of error will snowball to all things. People prioritize what is important to them. It's either not important, or he's happy for her to do it all and tag along and start saying things like "but you're better at those things than I am".

As for the fixing item - if it's IT it's like any other skill - we're specialized in our area and google the rest. It's usually easier for us to understand the answers given online with the skills we have to solve the problem.[/quote]

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