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[quote=Anonymous]OP ignore the one weird misogynist that hangs out on the relationship forum bashing women. I read your suggestion of going domestic as protecting the budget for both of you, not you looking to be covered. Nor do I think you should cover his expenses. And yes this same poster is incapable of imagining an arrangement where adults pay their own expenses.

Re: your BF, I’d assess whether the competency issue extends to other areas, real life, etc. Is this guy on track for retirement savings? Does he care for and manage his own health? Are his relationships with family and close friends intact? Think big picture. If yes to these things and you’re truly into him, he may be a keeper. If not, you may have to let him go. The “absent professor” or “loveable but bumbling” guy isn’t attractive for most of us (who haven’t been married to said guy for 20 years with shared kids). It’s reasonable to want someone who is value-added in your life (and no, that does not only refer to $$, talking to you incel guy). [/quote]

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