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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In some people it's a self-defense mechanism--fear of being wrong, self-worth hit if they are wrong, in trouble if they are wrong--due to childhood trauma. I've seen some people close to me who don't even realize they are doing it. With one person I find that I can firmly but kindly state the facts. In the beginning they would push back. But I did it enough that they started to see what they were doing. I care about this person deeply, and I knew it had nothing to do with me, and everything to do with them and their past. So it was well worth it to me to help resolve the problem. Plus, I have a prodigious memory and can't un-know something once I've seen, read, heard it. And they know that. [/quote] Same. But person won’t stop and has little self awareness. Completely lives on their own bubble planet day in and day out. [/quote]
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