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[quote=Anonymous]Why didn’t your DD and Jeff ever get together? Does she like him and was just too chicken to tell him (rings tells me this is likely) or  is he firmly in the friend zone and she just liked the attention?

My 16 year old has had numerous friends who are boys since 5th grade. Unless they are gay or have been in serious relationships with one of her girlfriends the whole time there isn’t a SINGLE one of these boys who didn’t express romantic feelings to her at some point. I’ve watched this play out so many times. She’s either involved herself with them and eventually ruined the friendship, or she turned them down and they either maintained their “hoping she changes her mind” boy bsf status or they moved on as soon as they find a girl to date.

I think your daughter probably turned him down in some way (maybe even unintentionally, as shy inexperienced ppl tend to) and now he’s moving on like the last example.

I wish it wasn’t this way. I think these male/female friendships bring a lot of value (and, he may come back to her later…many of my daughters boy bsf have)  but you have to be realistic about them.

You can’t fix it though. I’d encourage her to find some other friends asap though.

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