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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I made a couple close friends. But I didn't have that great group of friends you're still friends with years later. I was lonely a lot and on the fringes of other groups, plus I had one good friend I roomed with junior and senior year which helped.

[b]For me I think it was that I spent too much time with a boyfriend my first year.[/b] But I also just wasn't very adept at making friends? And I did not really mesh with anyone on my freshman hall - [b]there was a big clique I wasted too much time trying to be a part of.[/b] I should have realized sooner they didn't want to include me and branched out more.[/quote]

I could see how both those things could impact it.  It’s not that people don’t make friends after freshman year and groups change but often the seeds are planted freshman year. You meet a friend of a friend and become closer the following year or you live with the friends you made freshman year and become closer as a group.  Many people are a little less open to making new friends and want to spend their energy on current friends once they feel like they have a set friend group.  It makes it harder if you are trying to find friends after the  “everyone is interesting and a potential friend” stage has passed freshmen year.[/quote]

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