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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think so mom sure they really believe that you need to be saved From a life of eternal dammation and that their religion will bring you not only salvation but true happiness. It Comes from a place of love. And I don’t think they can likely help themselves [/quote] Honestly this is what I would think too. From their point of view—they are “risking their relationship with you” because it is worth the risk of it means that you will be saved through knowing Jesus Christ as your savior. Even if YOU don’t believe this, it’s important for you to understand WHY the only kind and compassionate choice *from their perspective* is to NOT leave it alone. Sure—from a worldly view, they absolutely should just live and let live. And to a non-believer that makes perfect sense bc who cares what religion you are! But the point is, they DO care because they care about YOU! And to shrug and just let it go means (to them) that they need to just keep their mouths shut while you condemn yourselves and their grandchildren to an eternity of separation from God. The point of my post is not to persuade you to accept Christ (because I don’t think that a random post on a message board will do that anyway)—-but rather to persuade you to at least consider the purity of their motives and have compassion for their predicament. Rationally, given their worldview, [b]wouldn’t you agree that if they are believers who just “let it go”—-that would make them incredibly heartless and selfish???[/b] Are they supposed to pretend it doesn’t matter to them or that they are indifferent about where you spend eternity? That would make your lives easier and more cordial while you are all together, and I get that….but it wouldn’t make them very loving for them to prioritize pleasantries and not offending you over your eternal salvation. (Again—this assumes that the motivation comes from a sincerely held belief that without Christ, your souls will perish. That’s a lot to ask a parent/grandparent to just shrug off) Just a thought. [/quote] Uh no. Honoring their childs request to STFU would likely be greatly appreciated and welcomed with open arms. Unlike whatever garbage you are spewing. [/quote]
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