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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think it's hard if you put in effort each day. It's like keeping your room clean - if you tidy for 5 minutes in the morning and 5 minutes before bed, your bedroom never gets too messy. But if you don't invest that time and effort, it becomes a HUGE, overwhelming mess.[/quote]

Can you talk a little about what that daily effort looks like to you?[/quote]

It’s a lot of things. Last week he had a big client meeting and that morning as he walked out the door I blasted the theme song from Rocky for him. I try to compliment often and if I have to criticize do it privately and be succinct in saying what I want him to change . I apologize whenever I should. We normally do our own laundry but if he’s super busy I’ll do it for him. I got him flowers recently. The little things add up so much. I compliment him often. [/quote]

None of these things seem to require much effort, but you shouldn’t feel like you have to do all of this. If you care about someone, you should want to do nice things for them, not feel like it’s a burden.[/quote]

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