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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You lost me when bringing up the cat.[/quote] But The cat comment made me lol. I def get it. Although not pertinent to the bigger issue, sometimes we do forget about the logistics of the small stuff that will have to be dealt with. Good luck, OP. [/quote] Pets aren't really small stuff. I know DCUM skews toward people who hate animals - but for people who love their pets, and consider them family, losing a pet to death or divorce is devastating. Just consider that many people don't leave domestic violence situations because they fear what will happen to their pets if they aren't there to protect them. I know when I broke up with a live in boyfriend of five years, losing the cat we'd had together was the hardest part. Pets see us through our happy times, and our sad times - and someone in OP's position is probably going through a pretty hard time. Having a pet to share her space with I'm sure is a huge source of comfort. Just to say - sorry you are going through this OP. Do you need to lose the cat, if you ditch the husband?[/quote]
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