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[quote=Anonymous]Neither DH nor I ever wanted more than 2. I would have been OK with 1, but he really, really wanted 2. And I was OK with 2. The first year after DC1 was born was among the best times in our marriage. DH was an amazing baby dad. We needed a lot of help to get pregnant both times, and we were both older. DH had a hard age cutoff where he didn't want to be having kids past a certain age. So there were a lot of external factors limiting us to 2. But I don't think my mental health would have survived a 3rd. DH and I once discussed whether we would have had a 3rd if our ages hadn't been a factor, and we both agreed we would not have had more.[/quote]
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