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Reply to "Is it unreasonable to expect your husband to be…employed?"
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[quote=Anonymous]This is a question of whether your values align. If you value financial security, including into retirement, and responsibility, then compatibility does not seem to be there with respoct to those. If you care less about those things, and more about the positive things he brings to the relationship, whatever they may be - there must be something, since you married, then perhaps the lack of ambition, lack of focus, and limited financial contributions don't matter so much. Everything is relative. Many, if not most, would say that a partner without sensible ambitions and a willingness to contribute to long-term financial security for a couple is not a partner worth having and may instead be a long-term liability, but it's your perspective which matters. [/quote]
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