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[quote=Anonymous]I think that's once you're married for a while, the best gauge is when someone's behavior really shifts. It sounds like this is brand new behavior (within the last several months) that all started when he began regularly communicating with this co-worker. If it feels off, it probably is. Even if "off" just means that it's a closer friendship than you are comfortable with. You are allowed to have boundaries in a committed relationship and if this is one of yours, you need to communicate that and he can choose to respect it. It might be helpful to go to your own therapist for some time to work out how you want to approach it. But I wouldn't try to ignore it and hope it will go away. At best, he's obliviously enjoying this new friendship. At worst, he has crossed a line and you'll need to move forward from there. Good luck OP--I hope you can get some peace.[/quote]
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