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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My answer as a woman who is dating for a little over a year on OLD: no, there is no chance to find an STD-free FWB. Men who seek for a relationship will be offended and will stray. Men who only seek sex will have infections. I bought a toy and vaginal cream, happy like a clam while dating looking for a real connection.

I don't have the time and money to waste on these arrangements take more time and medical check-ups after[/quote]

So you really think every person who is interested in a FWB situation has an Std? What world are you living in?

[b]OP-most sexually active adults try to be responsible. Meaning-they will get tested before or after a sexual encounter. And sometimes both.  This is even MORE true for people who are married and engaging in extracurricular activities. Most know the stakes are high and won’t take that kind of chance. Contrary to what people constantly spout on this board-most people aren’t actively walking around with stds and spreading them. [/b]

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This is so not true. At least back from when I was dating 20+ years ago. I had 20+ partners. Only one ever asked me to get tested. That's the only time I ever tested (negative). And I never asked anyone to get tested.[/quote]

Yea, men are very reckless with STD testing. A lot of people on apps have HSV2; HSV1 is a pretty much a norm but I still wouldn't want to catch it for something totally casual like FWB. I would only see a man with HSV1 if I was seriously crazy about him and had hopes for a relationship/saw relationship potential[/quote]

Are you negative for hsv1?  It’s extremely common so you’ll be limiting yourself if you are.

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db304.pdf

Also all women I dated never asked about std status or insist on condom.  So women are just as reckless

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