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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the depression issues are that obvious, tell him you're worried that he is not emotionally ready for a relationship. That will let him down easy without hurting his ego.[/quote] This is the wrong response. What you need is the classics it’s not you it’s me conversation. Plenty of people would be able to take this on. For OP, the distinction she needs to draw is, “I am not at a point in my life where I can be the support you need or deserve with these issues.” Everyone has things they can or cannot deal with. For OP she’s not cut out for depression and ED. There are others who might be able to. Frame it as a you issue OP. I am like this with people in recovery OP. There is nothing wrong with them but it is a triggering issue for me and I am not the right partner for someone with this history. I could handle ED though. People are different.[/quote]
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