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[quote=Anonymous]OP, have you posted about this before? I agree it is fine to go no contact but the degree of focus merits further therapy for DS's well being. He needs to be confident in setting boundaries, blocking, etc. The situation is not one that merits a restraining order but it speaks to how overwhelmed and in a sense powerless DS still feels. You both have been somewhat traumatized by the family court process, it seems, there are no legal consequences except he will likely be disinherited. That ties into the idea of an order, flipping the legal system to weaponize it. The trauma is not going to be fixed by no contact, you both need targeted help to address it. I'd acknowledge his feelings but shift the party topic to something more positive and future focused, adulthood. [/quote]
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