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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I knew from the get go that the person was definitely not relationship material yet I was physically attracted probably right away.

But if I liked them + saw some potential in a future w/them maybe after ten dates.[/quote]

I'm a man and understand this completely.  I'm similar, but i never actually did it on the first date.

I suspect the prior post was actually written by a woman.  Several women have shattered me with this.  I've gotten to date number four, date number five or even date number ten and figured out that the women were casually sleeping with other men but not with me.

I try not to do that with women.  I'll say I think we should just be friends by date number three or four.

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I’m a woman and I tell upfront that I see socially several men when I’m dating. Once I sleep with someone I stop seeing others. And I never see anyone past date 3 if I’m not feeling horny about them. Also offer alternate paying for dates or if he’s not comfortable pick inexpensive outings. But it’s really important to do it on my own time. Guys gave me “ick” moments on date 6-7 several times, and I was grateful I didn’t sleep with them. It’s about a month if I can see him often (2-3 days a week, daily talk) do I can gauge personality. Or couple months of slow flow going out once a week in no rush [/quote]

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