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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some other examples from music (I actually like/d a lot of pick me music back in the day haha)

Misery Business
She's got a body like an hourglass, it's ticking like a clock
It's a matter of time before we all run out
When I thought he was mine, she caught him by the mouth
I waited eight long months, she finally set him free
I told him I couldn't lie, he was the only one for me
Two weeks and we had caught on fire
She's got it out for me, but I wear the biggest smile
Whoa, I never meant to brag
But I got him where I want him now
Whoa, it was never my intention to brag
To steal it all away from you now

She "stole" the guy from the hourglass hottie and is bragging about it.

Taylor Swift You Belong With Me is a pick me,  Pussycat dolls "doncha wish your girlfriend was a freak like me", Avril Lavigne Sk8er boi and I dont like your girlfriend, Alanis Morisette You Otta Know.

If you read the lyrics you can get a sense of the comparison/putting down that makes someone a pick me. [/quote]

The first of these might be 'pick me' but not the others - not even You Belong With Me and especially not You Oughta No. Longing for someone or anger that you were dumped does not make one a 'pick me' girl.[/quote]

You Belong with Me is a pick-me anthem. The whole song is about how Taylor is perfect for this guy because she’s not like other girls, but she really gets him.[/quote]

Nothing in those lyrics indicate that Taylor is 'not like other girls'.  She's just not like the girl her love interest is with right now.  Taylor compares/contrasts herself only with that girl but isn't judging her - only that she is the opposite of that girl and is a better fit for their shared love interest.

I've experienced this except the other way around.  My DH (married 25+ years) is not someone who I would have dated in college.  I would have partied with him but nothing more because he wasn't what I thought 'my type' was like. Turns out, 'my type' didn't get my humor, didn't like my music, was more high maintenance than I was (but they definitely looked good!), and just wasn't as easy to be with as my DH - very similar to Taylor's song. It took me a while to see that a guy like my DH was really what I was looking for. Definitely not a 'pick me' situation.[/quote]

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