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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I can’t believe people are recommending therapy for this![/b] It is in the past. You made a decision, that in retrospect, may not have been the best for you at that time. If this is the worst thing that has ever happened to you, please consider yourself lucky.
You did not owe it to them to attend their wedding. Or perhaps you could’ve gone but done it a little cheaper and that would have been better in the long run. But other than a thank you to all who traveled to their destination wedding, they don’t owe you anything either.Just. Move. On.
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I think people are recommending therapy b/c 20 years of bitterness is an outsized reaction to a choice the OP and her spouse made. I would assume that in 20 years at some point "move on" crossed her mind in some form or fashion. And honestly if this is demonstrative of her ability to misascribe fault and carry bitterness towards others for her own choices, chances are she does this over other issues and in other relationships as well. [/quote]

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