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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds like a few things could be going on: 1) Your husband is a jerk, he wants what he wants and doesn't care what you want. That's why he's proposing restaurants you don't like-- because he doesn't care what you like. And he wants to do his hobbies and doesn't care about spending time with you, he's just letting you come along to check the box on spending time together. 2) Your husband wants you to participate in his hobbies with him. That's why doing his hobbies on his own is not satisfying him. 3) Something's really wrong in your marriage because you feel like you're giving all the time and he's not paying attention to you, so you think you need this kind of date to make up for it. But I don't think you're going to really feel like the scales are even. A weekend of "catering" every three months doesn't make it okay to be an inattentive, oblivious jerk to your wife the rest of the time, and I think you know that.[/quote]
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