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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm assuming the last 2 posts were by the same pp, but why are you calling them selfish? Because they have boundaries and don't put up with sh&t? Because they prioritize self care? Because they don't spend time on things that make them feel like crap? I don't see any of those things as lacking compromise or being selfish, or in any way a detriment to marriage. I think these are labels that older generations are putting on them because they live differently. We see posts all the time about people staying in crappy marriages, overlooking red flags or putting themselves last and being a martyr. That clearly isn't working, so I find it hard to believe that their version is going to be drastically worse. [/quote] That clearly isn't working for what exactly? Happiness? Maybe but humans are flawed and life isn't all about happiness. There are posts in the relationship column where people are constantly judging their significant other over trivial things like washing potatoes. While not putting themselves under the same microscope of criteria that not themselves, but their partner views as important. Humans are too flawed to make relationships work this way or we would need to all be clones, neither of which are beneficial to the race. [/quote]
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