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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem is not that she vents to you, the problem is that you can't listen without taking on the emotions of the vent. You would like to label her behavior as wrong, which is wrong. You need to be honest with yourself and her and say, I don't know why but when you vent it makes me sad/upset. I want you to be able to come to me but it's too much to always only hear the negative. At the end of every negative vent, try saying 3 positive things... or 3 things you that you are grateful for. Also, work on not feeling her emotions. [/quote] This is good advice.[/quote]
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