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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he's going to be unhappy/grumpy anyway, do what suits you. Move to the basement. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, but even if it doesn't, you're supposed to fill your own cup first.

I'm with PP above who has a whole separate housing situation from my "spouse". We aren't formally divorced because of the financial logistics and the kid our kids would take. But, for all practical purposes (including seeing other people), we are separated. It's not what I wanted, but it's what works best for our family, and I'm much happier now than when we had to share space.

Your happiness matters. Do what's best for you. As long as you're not doing it to spite him, your family will be fine.[/quote]

Only a 1990s self-help book would have more aphorisms than you. Sheesh. How about nut up and work on your marriage.[/quote]

I married an abuser, and can see why you'd want a spouse to keep going in that dynamic, no matter what. How about you nut up and mind your own fscking business instead of acting like you know the first thing about mine, eh dickbiscuit?[/quote]

DP but holy sh!t!  Are you sure your spouse was the only abuser in your marriage?[/quote]

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