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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Good for you guys. I am newly divorced and on OLD. I am 45 and I can’t see myself dating a woman under 40. What am I going to have in common with her? To each his own but I strongly prefer prefer someone around my age. Having been married the last thing I want is be involved with someone new to the institution and be so exited and end up disappointed. The sweet spot for me would be a divorced woman with kids older than 40. [/quote]

I'm 46 with kids. Divorced 4 years. I usually date younger men (27-37) because I can, because I won't remarry or blend families and I don't want more kids.
I did date a man the same age as me...he lied about being divorced. I thought I was doing the right thing dating close to my age, but now I don't think I ever will again.[/quote]
Are most of the younger guys you date as mature as you? Or immature?[/quote]

Not immature at all. I am not sure why you think maturity has to do with age. My ex husband is 50 and my kids call him an "adult toddler." I was mature in my early 20s...same as now. It is the same for men. Age does not always correlate with maturity at all. It's the person.

Interestingly, the younger men complain that women their own age are immature, obsessed with social media and image, flaky, obsessed with money and apperance, etc. That is why they date older (and no pressure to hurry up and getting married and have kids). Younger men often feel that younger women want any man just to marry, which is immature.[/quote]

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