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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One of the mistakes that many posters make is assuming that granny doesn’t get it that a teenager wants to do their own thing. She gets it, she just doesn’t care about his wants, needs or development more than what she wants. She ‘s taken a position that she’s entitled as the elder to always trump his needs so how dare he say no! OP should talk to her son about not letting someone else try to manipulate or guilt them into doing something they don’t want to do and that people who do this are coming from a place of selfishness not love. [/quote] She gets it she also understands how fleeting time is unlike with her own children she realizes that she won't be around for the second part where he wants to spend time with her again.[/quote] Perhaps - and just like the PP says, because she understands how fleeting time is, she believes her wants and desires (not needs) should trump his. [/quote]
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