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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I also worry about things like him causing a car accident and a victim going after all of your assets. Addicts are unpredictable. Does he have life insurance? Do you have any local family? I think it's important to find work ASAP, I'm sorry, I know it's a LOT at once for you and the kids. When addicts walk away they often go on epic benders and you cannot count on him keeping employment. Family lawyers often do free short consults. Call a few in the morning and see who you click with. Once you have an income you will feel safer. Even if you had to sell the house and downsize, if you can support yourself and the kids, that is the best scenario. Any money he earns on top of that is gravy. Al Anon meetings and r/alanon may also be sources of emotional support. Alateen when the kids are tweens. You will come through this, OP. Hang in there. There have been lawyers mentioned in the special needs sub who are better in substance abuse cases, building in protections, supervised visitation, drug testing, etc. I'd search or make a new post there asking for names of lawyers. [/quote]
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