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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Overall I am fine with 50/50 of the marital assets. But he can’t take 50% custody with his job. He is literally never home. He would have to hire a nanny. He would likely only take the kids on weekends/maybe one weeknight a week if he could swing it (but I doubt he would even want to). So it’s likely going to be 70/30 situation. Don’t get me wrong-I’d love if he would take 50 but he won’t. I will go back to work full time. But it will take me a lot longer to move up in my career now since it was always me having to “be flexible”. And I’m done. So yes-I want some short term alimony for giving up my career possibilities for his. We have been married 20 years. [/quote] Offer him 50/50 on paper and he’ll like do 70-80 as he continues to focus on his job, travel and dating. Unf you won’t get the child support for that but keep an excel sheet of kids needs and purchases and each pay pro rata. Camp, gear, clothes, vacations, school fees, sports, etc.[/quote]
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