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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Depends on how contentious and whether you have kids. Your numbers sound really low for a contested divorce. [/quote] How much did it cost you? We have three kids. He doesn’t want to get divorced. So contentious in that he said “if you do this I will make sure you get nothing”. Which I mean he can’t do that because we have no prenup and we have kids but that gives you an idea of his mindset.[/quote] So he’s high conflict, has money, and likes to fight. ? . You need a lawyer and mediation, your lawyer needs a strategy to appeal to his EGO so he doesn’t away everyone’s money and mediates in short order. Often these bully types want to mediate fast and get it over with (vs 2 years in court after a long separation) because they don’t want others to know (their failure). Make it about them, but it really (really it’s about the kids and finding peace). Read Tina Swithin. [/quote]
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