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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - I just had therapy and after perseverating to my therapist about which holidays? How many texts? How long for phone calls? I got the courage to ask him to go no contact with her. If he says no, I'll have my answer.[/quote] He’s already said no, OP. The fact is that he is still in love with her and vice versa, and even though they decided not to make it work (it’s likely she is the one who decided this, btw) that doesn’t mean that they just stopped having feelings for each other. But in all this time, knowing you are uncomfortable and even agreeing to “dial it back”—if he has not already gone no contact with her on his own, that means that you are not enough for him and he is only doing what is required. Just know that if he does it simply because you asked him to, you will be the villain and she will be the victim in his mind. [/quote]
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