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[quote=Anonymous]I had some struggles with stuff like this too, and it has been over ten years. Recently I heard someone say "don't get mad at your husband, get mad at yourself for not knowing better. Then forgive yourself and move on because now you know better." Looking back, I really, really wish I had called him out on his s**t. I wish I had known my inner worth and that I didn't deserve to be treated that way. Instead, I grumbled and complained and otherwise tried to be the not-needy wife. I have changed and things like that wouldn't happen anymore, but the resentment is still there. So now that the situation is over and he can't fix it, it doesn't do any good to get angry at him or stay in resentment. I am directing my emotional energy to where it is most useful. [/quote]
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