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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why doesn't this thread have people trying to explain that masculinity a social construct that doesn't really exist? Or that masculinity is a result of matriarchy that forces men into restrictive gender roles?

It seems to be women speaking about what they find attractive in men, but the "feminine woman" thread was full of women explaining what the concept of feminity is wrong, old fashioned and materialistic. [/quote]

Ok, I'll bite! Masculinity is a social construct and a result of matriarchy that forces men into restrictive gender roles!

This thread has made me think about how to separate "masculinity" from "things I like about my husband," because one thing I like is that he isn't married to restrictive gender roles. He does more than his share of stuff around the house, and is an equal parent. He also doesn't worry about seeming "manly" enough, which is an insecurity I find pretty unattractive.

I wouldn't redefine those things as "good masculinity" because they aren't gender-specific, but at the same time, I appreciate that he is a good role model of a confident, competent man for our sons, who I hope will feel affirmed as men just being themselves.

On the "traditional" side, yeah, I think being able to build and fix stuff is a stereotypically masculine quality that I appreciate. It was never on my list for a partner but a handy man is good to have around! [/quote]

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