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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Very sorry to hear this and I know it must be extra difficult since everyone always says that “you’re safe after you see the heartbeat” too. [/quote]

I've lost many after seeing their heartbeats several times. So I, obviously, don't believe that BS anymore. I understand the stats but for some people it's very common to lose pregnancies like this.[/quote]
OP here: it was super unexpected, because the baby’s heartbeat was strong and it measured right on target at the ultrasound. No cause was determined at the hospital, it just stopped growing. :( But the hospital sheet said too much exercise or caffeine could contribute to the miscarriage and now I’m wondering if I overdid it. :([/quote]

I don’t believe the stats on this and wonder if they are old (ie, from a time before early monitoring was common or  early ultrasounds we’re routine). I m/c after a “nice strong heartbeat” and so did every one of my closest friends. In fact none of us in our friend group had m/c (that we know of) WITHOUT having a good heartbeat first. Definitely don’t blame yourself, it’s incredibly common in my experience and although very sad, just one of those things. We all went on to have normal pregnancies.[/quote]

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