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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]FWIW, I have watched both my parents do this at various times (but more my mother). They cared for their parents, and then for my aunt during the couple years she had cancer. She moved in with them and died in their home. They are solidly on the other side of it now and really thriving and enjoying themselves. My mom was never super ambitious about her career but if she had been, she would have thrown herself into it again. My dad’s career has ebbed and flowed with family responsibilities but lately has been collaborative and fun for him. Their lives got a lot lighter once the intensive eldercare responsibilities ended. Probably not a huge comfort to you now, so feel free to wallow in it. I am here for your pity party! This period isn’t forever and it will get better for you. [/quote] Sometimes the peace of mind we get from helping loved ones continues for years beyond. It seems like your parents have it. I hope, op, you will have it too. Peace of mind is a great gift.[/quote]
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