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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That's exactly why I don't tell DH when I take a day off sometimes. He always wants to hijack it and impose his hobby on us and bill it as OUR time, but I just want my own down time. So I've done the not telling thing, and I've done the telling but setting firm boundaries: no I don't want to spend it on your hobby on my day off; I just want to see a movie that you don't care about. Either way, I feel zero guilt.[/quote] Yup, this is my DH too. I use my PTO says usually to run errands and get things done. DH will want to take off too and tag along with me. Which will entail stops at Home Depot, Costco when we don't need anything, or helping him clean the gutters, etc. Luckily my DH travels for work often so that's when I take my days off. [/quote]
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