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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry this happened. It's tough. Someone who had been a very close friend since middle school got married in our late 20s and she had about six bridesmaids but didn't include me. Some of these people were recent friends and the friendships didn't last. She did invite me to the wedding and I did go. We stayed friends for about five more years and then she ghosted me.

I had the feeling that I (and another friend that was also not asked to be a bridesmaid) were reminders of the past that she was eventually done with. She wanted to be a certain way for her husband and I think that meant we didn't fit in anymore. I don't really know why, but she was done with us.

It hurt me a lot when she dropped me but life goes on and I had other friends and my focus was on other things. But it did hurt and it took me a while to get over it.

All that said, I suggest saying nothing about it and see if you are even invited to the wedding. You will get the message of where you stand with him and your importance. You also don't have to attend if you are invited.[/quote]

You ended a friendship because you weren't asked to be a bridesmaid and you made assumptions about her reasons?  What a drama queen. [/quote]

That’s not at all what pp said. She got ghosted well after the wedding. [/quote]

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