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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, they understand that their manic/bipolar mom will sooner or later engage in "splitting" and suddenly the current FWB/knight in shining armor will be seen by mom as 100% bad and persona non grata. This may coincide with mom getting bored of the current situationship and coming across a new guy who tickles her fancy.

Only 9 months and you want to coerce them into accepting your shag of the moment as a full fledged family and household member?  Calling THEM "selfish"?  Please OP this is a "you" problem not a "them" problem.  Get back on your meds.[/quote]

+1000. OP the fact that you even have to ask us what’s going on with your own 14 and 16 YO girls is horrifying.

They have parents who can’t keep a marriage together, a father who has dropped out of their lives and a mother who, after only 9 months of dating, is immaturely acting like she’s met Prince Charming and expects them to be excited about your sex life.

You need some serious therapy OP before you and your x cause lasting damage to them. [/quote]

Bizarre to me how so many people on DCUM say if you’re not engaged to someone after a year, move on, but here we have someone who’s been dating 9 months, and somehow in this situation that’s a paltry amount of time.[/quote]
Don’t be obtuse. When you have teenaged kids the timeline changes, duh!!! [/quote]

Why?[/quote]

Not PP but will answer the obvious. It changes because they are your priority and they leave in few years so why complicate things when you can make it easy for yourself, them and new person.[/quote]

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