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[quote=Anonymous]I have learned it usually is not you or your kid. Logistics are often hard for my family but we prioritize birthday parties. Paintball is literally the furthest and inconvenient party for a family logistic perspective. Depending on where your child’s birthday falls, it can be a good day or poor day depending on sports and holidays.

I used to get all bent out of shape like OP. That was when I was a newish mom. I got over it by kindergarten. My oldest is now 14. I remember being insulted and took it personally for myself and my son. Two moms were so rude. I later found out one mom had cancer and other mom was divorcing. Divorcing mom flaked and her son was a very good friend of mine. Around age 6, she started being very friendly to me and acted like our boys were BFFs. I remember sending Dh to take our son to the other boy’s party because I was still butt hurt the way OP is. I later realized she had gone through a divorce. I still didn’t care for her as an adult friend but boys were friends. This was when my kids were 4/5 years old! I’m surprised OP is still feeling this way when kids are older.[/quote]

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