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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m still sympathetic to OP. All you critics have no idea how little medical support the mentally ill get. It’s horrifying. Story after story in the news of criminal acts by the mentally ill neglect the multiple calls and requests for help made by family members. It’s a human disaster.

Disabled children are coddled with Medicaid benefits galore. Then you can sign up for government waivers to cover a lifetime of services. You do know serious mental illness patients get streets and prison cells? I have kids with both developmental disabilities and SMI and the SMI gets many fewer resources. [/quote]

I'm also sympathetic as well as shocked by some of the responses here (though I don't think the disabled are necessarily "coddled" with Medicaid - at least it wasn't that way for my adult sibling).

The tragedy here is that a different cop, different police department may have handled this situation in a radically different way - one that recognized the individual's mental illness and attempted to preserve their ability to gain employment. Unfortunately, it is hit or miss across departments and sometimes even within them.

The OP is clearly grieving in many ways. Sounds like their DC was high functioning and is now struggling (and high functioning doesn't have to mean status chasing). I didn't read it as they were blaming the system for their DC's mental illness but expressing frustration at how the system is limiting their DC's ability to succeed in their new reality. Success here = gain employment, not enroll in an Ivy. That isn't an unreasonable aspiration, but a necessary reality, especially in a society where there isn't really a safety net for the mentally ill.

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