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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]pp back to say...of course your parent loved you. This wouldn't change. Grieve, but stay focused. [/quote]

Wrong. True love does not involve doing things that hurt the person you love.[/quote]

FFS you're over the top. Besides, you're really $hitty to tell the OP her parent didn't love her when s/he can't tell her.

My marital actions have no bearing on my love for my kids. Neither do my husband's. My parents got divorced, does that mean they don't love me?

Besides, you and OP have a thought that causes your feeling. If my parent cheated I wouldn't blink an eye. So, it's not the action, it's the thought that causes your suffering. Fix your toxic thoughts. [/quote]

You think OP already did not figure that out. Stop treating adults like china dolls. She will need to go through the whole process of understanding that she had a shitty parent and grow to understand that and that it has nothing to do with her. It does not change who she is.

It's no different than finding out when they are alive and having to realize you have a seriously flawed parent and you need to understand that has nothing to do with you.

I never told OP she needs to be in a deep depression over your parent being a selfish piece of sh$t. You seem to be projecting a whole lot onto OP. [/quote]

Uh, you clearly can't read. [/quote]

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