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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Friend of mine was just commenting that he thought it was so much easier for SAHMs inclined to cheat these days; particularly if their kids are of school age. 5 hours a day alone and, as a woman, a much easier time finding a willing sex partner. I'd have to agree. [/quote]

SAHM here -

The reality doesn't measure up to the fantasy.  A friend once told me "Don't poop where you eat."  I am alone most of the day but I would never have a guy come to my home for an affair.

The other issue, she is home alone for a reason.  All the men with jobs are at work.  Where is she going to find someone to have a fling with?[/quote]

I agree. The workplace is a huge source of affairs. It's increasing in part because the line between work and personal life is blurring, and now people are in touch through the evening and on weekends unlike 15 years ago when many people just went home and may have done work but didn't interact with iPhone, blackberry, texting. Also now that a lot of people are using IM for work and merging their personal phones with work phones I think it's just easy to drift to personal stuff without realizing it.

I also think people see others' "best self" at work. You are usually showered, primped, dressed, and you are professional so put on a smile, laugh at a joke, etc. It's a bit of a bubble. SAHMs are more likely to hang out with other moms during the day I imagine, but perhaps as more dads stay home that will change in the coming years.[/quote]

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