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[quote=ThatSmileyFaceGuy][quote=Anonymous]Glad to know I am not alone although sad to see so many others in the same boat as me.  DH and I have not had sex in almost two years.  Part of that time I was pregnant but there was no interest on his part during or since.  It is really depressing and it makes me really angry too.  If I had the opportunity to find someone to cheat with I would.  I really would and that is sad.  I feel totally unattractive at this point and therefore, do not think I will even find someone for a fling.  :o([/quote]

I know it's hard, but you can not let his disinterest affect your self-esteem. I'm willing to bet that you pass men every day that think you are still very sexy and beautiful

Was this your first pregnacy and was he in the delivery room?? From some reason seeing the byproduct of sex pushing it's way into the world does seem to turn off some men. (I know it sounds silly)

Does he express affection in other ways but doesn't attempt sex? If this is true then remember what it feels like to be sexy ( kid under 2 doesn't help that much) dress the part and sit him down and tell him how his lack of interest is making you feel - tho don't bring up the desire for a fling. [/quote]

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