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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, my DH finally woke up and realized that he needed to also look at me as if we were dating, not just a mom and launderer.  He told me to buy whatever clothes I wanted so that when we go out to eat, I am dazzling.  Now I am average looking, but can be very attractive if I put some time into it.

He stepped it up and really got into the whole date thing - holding hands, kissing me when I least expect it.  A marriage does not have to go stale.[/quote]

I agree, but he has to want to do that. I don't need new clothes and dazzle. I already do all that. I take great care of myself in that way. But he has to WANT to do date nights etc. It can't just be me pushing for it all the time. We've been working on things, in counseling, etc. for months but change is slow. I'm giving it to the end of the year and then will reassess whether or not this is worth saving. I am still young enough to move on, even have another child with someone. It is classic "walk away wife syndrome" but he is the one who had the affair and has one foot out the door. I've been working like hell and I only have so much more in me.[/quote]

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