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Reply to "kept something from my husband because of the stress he’s under but feel terrible"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unpopular opinion, and here goes: I would not keep a secret from my DH because I feel that this betrays the covenant we made when we vowed that two become one. Keeping a secret from him would feel like I’m compromising that vow. We are clear about this with our children and I don’t think they would ever ask one of us to keep something from the other. But if they asked to tell me something on the condition that I not share it with DH, I would remind my child why I can’t hold to that condition. I think the only time I would even fathom keeping a secret from my DH is if my child were accusing DH of something horrible and feared retaliation. [/quote] Don't worry, it doesn't sound like your children would share that with you anyway. We say we don't keep secrets in our family, but I'd also consider respecting my child's wishes to keep something private in certain situations. Your stance sounds ridiculous. Rigidity rarely serves anyone well.[/quote]
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