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Reply to "kept something from my husband because of the stress he’s under but feel terrible"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think there is a lot of context and specifics that matter. My kid is only 11 so while she generally knows that I don’t keep secrets from my husband, I can see this coming up at some point. But, I have a loving husband that I believe will continue to love our kid even if she has made a bad choice or something bad has happened to her. She might not realize that in the moment or be too embarrassed, etc. So, I can see a world in which I might keep a secret for some period of time. But during that time, I would be actively trying to get her the support she needs — while also trying to remind her that ultimately her dad will be another source of support. And if I thought his initial gut reaction might be poor for some reason, then I would talk about perhaps me bringing the topic up with him before we all talk about it together.[/quote]
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