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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Make a spreadsheet listing how many days you spent with each set of grandparents and share it widely[/quote] i'm not sure if you're being facetious, but in case not, thats my point. I don't exist only as "manager of kid's time and grandparent access". If I want to go spend 2 weeks in my hometown, I can just do it because I get to spend my time how I want. I shouldn't block a relationship between my inlaws and the kids and should do a reasonable amount to support it for my kids sake, but when I don't have to spend an equal amount of time with my inlaws. If I took the kids to spain for 2 weeks because I wanted to see spain, no one would think it was reasonable to then say "ok you went to spain, now you must visit your inlaws for 2 weeks also". [/quote] You sound annoying and dumb. Put down your high and mighty principles and pacify your ILs by showing them how much you are visiting them[/quote]
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