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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think this specific thing is a deal breaker, but I don’t see how you can make a relationship work with two people who are both super rigid about doing every tiny thing their way.

Someone has to give and either leave the dishes out longer or put them away sooner.  If neither person can change on this small thing, then you are just going to be constantly fighting over everything.  
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Agreed.  The real question is probably closer to can an uptight control freak ever be happy with anyone?[/quote]

Is the uptight control freak the one who puts dishes in the dishwasher as they happen or the one who has to let everything wait until morning?  
Both of these people sound like uptight control freaks to me.

OP, stuff like this isn’t a big deal in most marriages. 
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Whoever would be so passionate that their way is the only correct way to the point that the dishes schedule or lack thereof could be a relationship killer is the uptight control freak.  And unless the person who wants to wait prevents the person who wants it done  right away from doing it right away, it’s obvious who is who.[/quote]

I mean, aren’t they both so passionate that their way is the only correct way to the point that the dishes schedule or lack thereof could be a relationship killer?  
I mean, the person who wants to wait is preventing the person who wants it done from having a clean kitchen. 
I can go either way with this, but I don’t really see how the person who wants it done is preventing the other person from anything at all.

I don’t know.   I wouldn’t want to be with either of these people.  
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Because one person (the person who wants it done right away) feels entitled to MAKE the other person comply with their wishes - active - controlling.  The other person (presumably) is not trying to MAKE first person do or not do anything - passive - not controlling.[/quote]

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