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[quote=Anonymous]I also really enjoy popping over to coj every so often- I used to be a dedicated daily reader but now its more like once. week, a few weeks. Its aprovilaged place but I'm also a pretty privileged person and. my kids are the same age an di have depression and anxiety so -shrug- Its good for me?

I think the divorce was probably a long time coming.. and most women I know who divorce feel very free and happy to not have to cater to anyone anymore.  The circle she inhabits is also full of pretty successful women who are kinda dorky and insecure and not the cool kids but have somehow become wealthy and successful as thirty somethings and that is a very particular type of life experience. of course people who were always self assured and with it will not truly get it. She is a people pleaser for sure and I think being married is very difficult for people like that- they are super attuned to how they interact with others and are kind of needy ..I'm like that and my relationship is kind of mess b/c I am constantly second guessing and wanting attention and its a lot in the throes of elementary school life so I have to give myself a reality check.

I think she is going to talk about the dating in the subscription only newsletter? I think also when you are struggling to build yourself and then you realize you have finally arrived.. maybe you get bored and getting rid of your spouse to start something new is kind of exciting- thats when a lot of people start being poly? And she is a child of a pretty healthy divorce as is Alex so maybe they  think it won't be so bad for their kids either?

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