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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s really hard to be a jerk to someone who loves you completely and unconditionally.

If he’s a good enough guy to want him around your kids, then he probably will try and do what you want if he feels that you love and respect him.

Why don’t you just try acting like a loving wife for a week and see how it goes.  Be the kind of wife that you hope your son will have one day.  [/quote]
maybe she would be more loving if he was more of a man and father.[/quote]

It’s not really about him.  It’s about showing your kids what a kind and loving spouse looks like.  If he’s not going to do it, she can.    [/quote]
That's right.. show your son how he can be a bum and let his wife do everything.

I have a DS and DD. DH teaches our son to be a good father and man.  I feel sorry for OP's kids because they see what a lackluster father they have.

My father said his father was basically a bum, and his mother did everything.  That stuck with him till her death when she was in her 80s. [/quote]

I mean, she could try to change the dynamic in their marriage so that [b]they are both nice to each other and her husband does more around the house.  [/b]Or she could at least be like, “this is how your wife should treat you because this is how wives treat their husbands.”

Or she can keep doing this where her kids learn that one person in the marriage is the bum, and one is a martyr who treats the other with contempt, and the kids can decide which partner they want to be.

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what makes you think OP wasn't nice in the beginning when her lazy DH was slacking off?  You are assuming he became this way because she was mean to him.

He needs to grow up. He has kids. No matter how she treats him he should parent and take care of his kids.  He's an immature man/boy, and most women don't aren't attracted to immature men.[/quote]

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