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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, this is my family.
Mom spent decades deliberately triangulating my sibling and i, and left all money to my sibling (who would very gladly and gleefully keep it all) to help ensure, even in death, that my sibling and i would never have a positive relationship. 
It's impossible for people without parent(s) and/or sibling(s) like this to remotely understand, OP. [/quote]

same same. I dont care about the money, but I'm still grieving the loss of the family I thought I had. I went no contact and have no regrets, but it's a loss nonetheless. They used money as a means of control, but I removed myself from their manipulative garbage. The silver lining for me is that after lots of therapy I'm a cycle breaker. I will never treat my kids the way I was raised.[/quote]

NP here. I’m not grieving the loss of family so much as the sickening feeling my mother and sister think they’re better than me - more money, they  travel on fun trips together, they have this special bond and badmouthing me is their favorite activity together. I cling to other
Positives in my life such as good health and having a husband and daughter who love me. And the knowledge I won’t be spending my middle age taking care of an aging narcissist (my sister will).[/quote]

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